First love..

I clearly remember the moment my daughter told me about Twilight. Robin, who was fourteen at the time, was head over heels in love with this love story. Sharon was 10 years old and had decided to find everything that Robin found interesting to be interesting. Hey..This needs a bit of explanaition I presume. Robin, being the eldest of my best friend during this very special and important period in the lives of our children, was blossoming and overflowing with hormones that she couldn’t particularly place very well. Hence Twilight. The love story of all times , if ever you would ask these girls. But hey, seriously I could not, in the least remote way, feel any connection whatsoever to a vampire and, a rather weak specimen of, a girl. Isn’t it at least fair then that I now give my readers a fair chance to a fair review of this all consuming love story that kept an entire generation of adolescents glued to either the film or the book? So I asked myself the question why Bella was so appealing to these teenage girls. Well, teenage girls relate to Bella because she is insecure, confused and seemingly madly in love with someone who makes her feel special. And the fact that no-one seems to understand them makes it absolutely more worth the while. Feeling safe and being confused at the same time makes the role Edward plays very important, but dangerous as well at the same time.
Now you have to have a bit of prior knowledge to understand what I am writing about. Follow me please and try to keep up. Edward is a vampire and Bella the girl he falls in love with and she, naturally, falls in love with Edward. Love story born. When discussing this book in Literature class, one of the issues was the role Bella plays in the story. We found it to be rather weak. Edward dominates and he pries on her weak nature. She constantly needs his confirmation and seems very dependent of him. We thought this to be a very bad role model to girls and young women today. One could say that Edward is very protective, but on the other hand he treats her like a prey. He even calls her a lamb. Is Edward a loverboy? Edward Quotes. “I like the night. Without the dark, we’d never see the stars.” “And so the lion fell in love with the lamb…” he murmured. ( Meyer, 2009)
So now that the readers know, for those who have never heard of Twilight, that Edward is a vampire, in class we also wondered about his nature. being a vampire makes him somewhat evil. Vampires live of the blood of others. Coming from the Cullen family who drink their blood of animals he certainly tries his best to be a good vampire and as a reader we might almost think him to be a good vampire. A vampire he remains however. Here the story becomes interesting because we can subscribe evil to the main character now. This idea of evil will probably sound ridiculous to 16 year olds, because they will know by now that people are not to be looked upon in such a simple way, but a 10-14 year old is not quite there yet. Everything is mixed up here and so are adolescents, mixed up.
Mixed up, in between adolescence and adulthood, according to Erikson, in between stage 5 and 6. Teenagers start to develop their personal identity and engage in personal relationships. Stage 6.( Erikson, 1970) Hence, again, mixed up and Twilight is the ultimitate first love story for this age group. Like it or not. Having written this, I can only conclude that I finally understand Robin and my daughter now, being who they were at that age, and happy that they know better now.














